Thanks for the pointers. Yes, of course all apt commands are always executed as root.
Right now it is not so much about the bug that prevents purging, it is more that I just can't reinstall x2goserver anymore. I see this message
"X2Go is configured to use a non-SQLite DB backend, leaving the database alone"
and the server install fails.
and can't find any documentation and reference to it, it is a show stopper at this moment.
Question: Where is x2go told to do that? Which config is still left on the system? I cleaned up EVERYTHING x2go related, erased all dirs and configs, I have never seen this message before. It is like apt / dpkg remembers some setting that it is not supposed to remember (as the package was purged)