I do think you need OpenCL to work with the GPU of the ATI card...
http://wiki.blender.org/index.php/Doc:2.6/Manual/Render/Cycles/GPU_Rendering
Though I suspect that could also cause trouble by trying to use the GPU
for the "work view" too....
It could be that it already, all by it self figure out that it wants to
use your ATI card?
If you open a xterm in the X2Go session and crank this:
"blender -d -f 1 -b" does it render a cube to your /tmp/ ?
Btw. how would X2Go shadowing :0 work for you?
Just skimmed through the doc... looking forward to see the videos.
As for IRC... make sure you are on a freenode server... then enter #x2go rom
What IRC client are you using?
You should always see a bunch of other users.... but quite often it can
be a very quiet place...